Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Semester ended... Lesson Learnt!

Final's done... Semester's over...
overall i am glad and satisfied with everything...
With the type of course i've chose..
with the things im learning and learnt so far...
with the college i've chosen...


am glad that the course i've chosen was one of God's Will 4 me...
and for that i have the inner peace coz im also on the Right track!!


learning psychology is fun!!
many things can be applied in my own life...
having the knowledge of why people do what they do is amazing... (it's like able to understand them without asking them y...)


But one of the things i've learnt and am longing to share is this....


Type of Attachment Style with their caregiver during infant & how it has the impact on an individual's relationship life in the future...


All in all there are 3 Attachment Style:

  • Avoidant Attachment Style- With Distant & Aloof Caregiver
  • Anxious or Ambivalent Attachment Style- With Inconsistent &Overbearing Caregiver
  • Secure Attachment Style- Responsive & Caring Caregiver
so any individual will fall in any of the three category depending on the type of relationship they had with their caregiver... but the best Attachment Style will be the secure attachment style coz that individual will grow up to be a confident individual who will venture into a relationship thinking that he/she is worthy and precious and should only deserve the BEST!!

However, i can't stop thinking that EVERYONE CAN FALL INTO THE 3RD CATEGORY!! Cause every1 do have a Responsive & Caring Caregiver which is no one else but JESUS himself.... it's all depending on how you look at it.... Whether agree or not, YES! JESUS DO CARE! & HE IS THE GREATEST CAREGIVER IN THE WORLD...!!